Close the Door and It’s One Hour that Gets to be All About You!
In a world that constantly demands our attention, time, and energy, how often do you get a block of time that belongs solely to you?
Between balancing work responsibilities, family commitments, running errands, and keeping up with the endless notifications on our screens, self-care is often the first thing to slide off the to-do list. We spend our days tuned into the needs of everyone else around us, frequently putting our own physical, mental, and emotional well-being on the back burner.
When you cross the threshold into a therapy session—or simply close the door for a telehealth appointment—something fundamental shifts. It’s one hour that gets to be all about you.
What Happens When You Step into Your Hour?
Closing the door isn't just a physical action; it's a boundary you set with the outside world. It signifies a transition from doing for others to turning inward to support yourself. In this container, you are given permission to:
Exhale and Settle Your Nervous System: Outside that room, your nervous system might be running on overdrive—juggling tasks, managing stress, or responding to constant stimuli. Closing the door creates a safe harbor where your system can finally begin to regulate, activate resting capacity, and drop its defenses.
Listen to Your Body and Mind: Whether we are using deep-brain somatic modalities like Brainspotting or EMDR, this hour offers a mirror. What are your emotions telling you? Where are you holding tension?
Embrace Your Humanity Without Judgment: So much of daily life requires putting on a brave face, meeting expectations, or keeping everything under control. In your hour, there is no need to perform. You can bring your full, authentic, messy, beautiful human self—uncertainties, hopes, grief, and all.
Reclaiming Intentionality and Connection
At Coriander Living Collective, our heart’s mission is encouraging life satisfaction through deep connection to self, others, and the world. But connection to anything meaningful starts with connection to yourself first.
Living a "life well lived" doesn't mean having a perfect schedule or never feeling stressed; it means making intentional choices aligned with your values. Reclaiming just one hour out of your 168-hour week is one of the most powerful, value-aligned choices you can make.
When you honor your need for space, you replenish the reservoir from which you show up for everything else in your life.
Your Space is Waiting
If you've been feeling scattered, overwhelmed, or simply yearning for a moment of quiet focus and genuine care, consider this your invitation.
Give yourself permission to prioritize your well-being. Step inside, shut out the noise of the outside world, and take a deep breath.
Close the door—this hour is all about you.